The Myth of a Spiritual Woman being meek.
Today I thought that I would raise up the subject of spirituality in relation to the perception that such a woman is meek and mild, its funny that nothing could be further from the truth.
Women have been long taught in what I still feel is a man's world (regarding sexuality) and its expression, that if a woman is in touch with her inner hag, and abandons her spirit, she is perceived as not having any morals, or she is perceived as loose, she is perceived as wanton.
But the thing is, sexual expression is the one time, where both recipients, man and woman can abandon their inhibitions and abandon themselves in the act, especially if the connection is a deep one. In that moment of connection, where union takes place, it is the one moment that ego is completely stripped away, stripped bare, naked, exposed, where all senses of each body are enlightened with nerve endings that electrify and the expulsion of sexual energy.
If you have had the the joy to be able to experience such a connection, then you are fortunate, but sometimes it can leave a person in shock, especially if they had a perception of their mate being meek and Angelic.
You see each connection brings its own soul reward, its own union, its own energy, and sometimes if the sexual union is a magnetic one, sometimes individuals can get addicted to the energy that ensues.
The key concept is that in sexual union one abandons their soul in the act and union with their mate, so that all their senses become alive. Tears can fall, as in that moment all ego falls away and vulnerability is exposed in its rawness, how beautiful how freeing, how liberating, but if your mate is not ready, they can be left with a sort of soul shock, especially if he has ego needs that need to be expressed, e.g being on control.
The spiritual woman is in touch with her inner sexuality and is not afraid to express it, but sometimes her partner, may not quite be ready or have been quite prepared for such a display of wanton sexuality.
Expression comes in many forms and in many ways and in sexuality it is possible to manifest your dreams, goals and desires at the point of orgasm, it is a channel and vessel between realms and quite often many are conditioned not to go there, because of the message that they may have been taught, that to be in touch with your sexuality, means that you have lost total control that you are loose, that you are not worthy.
Arousal often starts in the mind, and in truth the soul connection which brings out the inner diva, means that there has been a deeper connection, than one of just the body. it is certainly not for those who have been conditioned to believe that freedom of expression in between the silk sheets is so wrong.
What could be so wrong with allowing your senses, your mind, body and spirit to completely abandon all sense of pre-conceived conditioning and enjoy the moment and to celebrate in that moment a pure, raw unadulterated abandonment of pure sexual energy. I think if more and more women are able to tap into their raw confident sexuality then it means they are owning their own personal power.
Owning your own power is about allowing yourself to express yourself without fear of judgement.
Owning your own power is knowing that you have a right to express your inner diva.
Owning your own power is being confident in your skin.
In love & light, Suzy
Susan Lawrence Soul Coaching
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