Release the pressure to conform
Patrick Falaniko • 21 May 2020
I waited over a year for the right woman to walk through my studio doors. Not because of what she looks like or how many followers she has, but someone with a strong connection to her body and spirit.
I've been wanting to show what a photoshoot looks like when a woman is truly comfortable and connected to herself. I know Charlena is still young, still growing, she might not have the same pressures. She knows she is going to make mistakes, she is going to fail, but that's ok, she is living to her fullest and and keeping true to her vision. Her vision, her path.
I celebrate women, their power, beauty and sensuality. Charlena (pictured) and I joked that my "wholistic" approach to boudoir might just make the Goddess Studio the most "un-boudoir" studio that we know of.
The big issues we face are "the gate keepers of taste" and why I love working with my boudoir clients is that we get to reject the pressure of conformity.
Women face enough crap in life everyday, and social conformity is one of the ugliest pressures there is.
That's why I repeatedly talk about providing a safe space, a sacred space, a creative space for women to play.
Don't worry we are still here to take beautiful pictures, but I can't tell you the sheer relief on some women's faces, usually ten minutes into a shoot, when they realise they can say anything, suggest an idea and no one is going to laugh at them or think it's stupid.
...and then there's the pressure to be sexy, we don't do sexy poses or pouting unless we're having a giggle.
Sexy comes with joy, and joy can't thrive where there's stress and pressure. Instead we tap into our inner goddess, trust me, she's there in all of us.
Take care and stay safe Goddesses.
Patrick
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