I get so many inquiries and requests that go past the average boudoir photos in lingerie and spice levels that take it into the realms of erotica.
In the world of intimate photography, let's talk about a word that's absolutely key: Consent. As a photographer, I love that I can help women celebrate and explore their sexuality, and delve into the sensual and erotic. But it's not just about creating beautiful images; it's about building a space filled with trust, respect, and crystal-clear communication.
Unpacking the Power of Consent
At the heart of any meaningful interaction is consent. When it comes to nude artistic photoshoots It's not just a tick-box on a legal form; it's an ongoing, dynamic conversation between us, from our initial chat to the final click of the camera. Consent should be informed, enthusiastic, and a constant presence throughout our experience.
Needlessly to say, this goes for all levels of photography, boudoir and art nudes, but especially so for erotic nude photography themes.
Empowering You, the Client/Model
If you're stepping into the world of erotic studio photography, setting firm boundaries is empowering. It's about embracing your desires while openly and honestly communicating your limits. As your photographer, I encourage you to express your comfort levels, preferences, and any concerns you may have, before we begin, and during the course of your session. It's the foundation for a collaboration that's not just creative but respectful.
A Peek into the Photographer's Perspective
Offering a sensual photo service is a wonderful profession, but I'd like to emphasise that providing this service doesn't mean I'm up for anything and everything beyond the artistic realm. For example, as a general rule, for first time boudoir clients I don't photograph higher than open leg. And any rope work is self-tie for the moment. Just like you have your boundaries, so do I. It's a two-way street of respect, and I'm here to ensure our journey together is comfortable and creatively fulfilling. So just get in touch for a chat, if it's beyond my scope, I'll pass you on to a more suited photographer.
Don't Give Away your Autonomy to an 'Expert'
I encourage as much as possible a side by side collaborative approach to intimate photography where women take active part and "speak their minds" throughout the process. I've only had one session where a client on the day deferred everything to me "as the expert" and she had no opinion about any of it, what style, what levels, what emotions she wanted expressed. In cases like this I will always err to the modest side of things.
Let's Keep the Lines Open & Setting the Expectations Right
Before we dive into the magic of an erotic photo session, let's talk about the vision for our shoot, preferred styles, and anything that's off-limits. This chat not only ensures our creative goals align but also strengthens the trust between us.
Whether it's about wardrobe choices, poses, or the overall theme of our photoshoot, setting expectations beforehand avoids any misunderstandings and ensures our time together is enjoyable for both of us.
I've a consistent 99.99% and five star rating from clients, and I want to keep it that way, as an erotic nude photographer I feel communication plays the vital role in this.
Consent Extends Beyond the Lens
Remember, our agreement on consent goes beyond our photoshoot. Your wishes regarding the privacy and any use of the images matter. I'm here to ensure you're comfortable with where and how your beautiful photos will be showcased.
Creating a Culture of Respect and Empowerment
The challenge with photography, every single image is just a singular moment in a day's experience and can easily be taken out of context when seen alone. That's why consent is not just a legal necessity; it's a foundational principle. By keeping our communication open, setting clear boundaries, and respecting each other's autonomy, we're creating an environment where empowerment and artistic expression beautifully coexist. And each and every boudoir photo shoot (and image) whether erotic or nude artistic photoshoot can be looked back at with warmth and joy.
So, ready to create some photographic magic? Let's have a chat!
Patrick Falaniko
Owner & Lead Photographer | Goddess Studio | Sensual Photography London, UK & Beyond.
I read a really interesting article by CPHmag.com about the power of consent and photographer's obligations here.
https://cphmag.com/power-consent-obligations/
https://lareviewofbooks.org/article/migrant-mother-dorothea-lange-truth-photography/